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    Saturday, May 27, 2006

    Medicine Man



    I was at a Brain Trauma conference on a Saturday morning and was invited to a"sweat lodge". The old man who invited me was the tribal Medicine Man. This old man knew who Sgt. B and I were immediately, I think Sgt. B pretty much gives us away everytime as he is black, and there are no black folks here. I could pass for Native American, but I still stick out like a sore thumb too with the way I dress. He knew we were the Special Forces guys, but he liked to call us the medicine men. He thanked us for our service to the country and our service to his community here. It was neat to talk with him. Unfortunately, we couldn't make it to the ceremony, but it was cool just to be invited. It wouldn't be the last time I heard someone call me medicine man here either.

    The hospital staff has been incredible to Sgt. B and I. We've been floating between the ER, Podiatry, Pediatrics, OB/GYN, Surgery, and Dentistry inside the hospital shadowing a physician in each department. We've also had the opportunity to go out into the community with a Public Health nurse and do some house calls. Lastly, there is a walk-in clinic, and on Tuesdays there's the diabetic clinic where the community's diabetics come in for a check up. I've only seen one life-threatening trauma come in since being here, and it was pretty hairy. A baby was at a daycare here in town and, supposedly, another child was stabbing this baby in the mouth with some keys. The baby's tongue swelled up and he lost his airway. The EMT's were unable to intubate en route, so by the time we got him it was looking pretty bleek. The ER doc on call attempted an intubation, but to no avail. He then tried to do a cricothyroidostomy, but was unsuccessful as well. I really don't know how this baby made it, to be honest. The Nurse Anesthetist (former Marine) arrived after being beeped and he saved the day with a miracle blind intubation. Sgt. B and I were assisting the whole time as the two ER nurses completely lost it, they froze up and freaked out because they knew the child and family. It was an "oh shit" moment for the ER as they don't get stuff like this often. The ER doc was pretty shaken up as well. Afterwards, upon inspection of the tongue and mouth we all thought it odd that there were no cuts or abrasions in the mouth if it were keys that caused the trauma. The ER doc concluded that there could have been some abuse, so it was promptly reported, and is currently under investigation. The police suspected a bottle being shoved in the baby's mouth forcefully and repeatedly. Sad stuff if true. Another sad moment was in Pediatrics. A young mother with a 4yo. girl came in because she suspected sexual abuse. The pediatrician did an assessment, as I was shadowing. I can't even begin to describe what I saw. It was the first time I've ever had to walk out. The mother was in tears when Dr. A confirmed her suspicions. It's the uncle, and this was the third time. It's been depressing working here to say the least. There are a lot of diabetics, I mean a whole lot. The elderly are plagued by it, and the young are plagued by Crystal Meth. While in dentistry I saw a lot of high school aged kids getting teeth pulled as well as young twenty-somethings. The dentist explained to me that several of them are meth users, and it wasn't the first, nor will it be the last tooth they get yanked. Apparently, meth destroys teeth along with every organ in the body. There are banners all of the place like a Just Say No campaign saying things like "The High is a Lie" and "Meth Kills".

    *big sigh*

    On a positive note... on my house calls with the Public Health nurse, I have been able to interact with people at their homes, and enjoy some hospitality after ministering to their physical ailments and wounds. This has been quite enjoyable, it kind of brought me back to my missionary days, I wished I had these skills then. This is going to sound so cliche, but an old lady dressed with long grey hair in pig tails and traditional shawl called me a "great medicine man" after I redressed her diabetic foot ulcers. Like I said, it wouldn't be the last time I heard that. I've also had the chance to hang with some of the "local natives" out on the town. We've enjoyed some nights of dancing, playing poker, and just cutting up. I also went to a Catholic service on Sunday, which was very interesting. The music was really, really cool. The music was led by a los lonely guitarist who sang in the tradition of the old west with these weird tribal instruments in the background. The opening song made me feel like I was walking into a saloon for a gunfight except the words had to do with Jesus having victory over death. It was very Clint Eastwood movieish. That's the best I can describe it. The preferred modes of transportation here on the reservation are horse, fourwheeler, or some sort of farm vehicle. I am pretty sure there are more of these than cars. There is also a herd of buffalo on the res as well, but they're quite small compared to the ones I've seen in pictures. I don't think they're well nourished. There is a barber shop called "Scalp 'Em" and they don't play around. I went from cool guy SF hairdo to looking like a damn Hardy boy. The food around town isn't so good, but I've had a few homecooked meals which were quite delicious. Anyways, this is the first time I've been on an Indian Reservation, it's been quite the experience thus far. I think I'm going to try and go to the Badlands tomorrow if the weather holds up.

    Have a great Memorial Day Weekend everyone!

    23 Comments:

    At 5/28/2006 7:57 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Wow...you really get to have some amazing experiences don't you!

    Have a great weekend.

     
    At 5/28/2006 11:07 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Have you seen much alcoholism on the reservation and related health problems?

    Hope you get to see the badlands--pretty amazing.

    Have a great Memorial Day weekend. We thank you for your service.

     
    At 5/28/2006 2:06 PM, Blogger Miz BoheMia said...

    Wow Jake... I could not stomach anything to do with abuse of children... I lose it and this intense rage fills me up and god forbid any such person ever cross paths with me... they are beyond sick and though in cases of other crimes (never rape, sexual assault and the like though... I am not open to that) I believe in maybe the chance of said criminal being reformed, I have no compassion for animals who attack children or who commit sexual crimes... none at all... sorry you have to live through such things, it must be very grueling and demoralizing... but it can only make you stronger and the world needs more people who are aware and fighting for change and available to help these children and thank you for that...

    Oooh! Did you say San Francisco? Any connection to the city?

    Have a great weekend medicine man and hope you get some much needed R&R!

     
    At 5/28/2006 4:22 PM, Blogger Jake said...

    Miz Bohemia-

    Well, I just found that I don't have much of a stomach for it either.

    I too believe that any criminal including child abusers can be reformed, however, I'd say that the most effective reform and deterrant for our society's child molesters is a long time in prison- no parole. Our laws should be extreme in their sentencing as it relates to these specific crimes. Zero tolerance whatsoever. If the person truly wants to reform, he can voluntarily ask for rehab/psychological/spiritual help while in prison as a genuine rehab time rather than a good merit program to get parole. Our current laws are ridiculous as relates to these pedophiles.

    SF on my blog refers to Special Forces darlin'. I would love to see San Fran one day though. I hope you have a great weekend too, the weather is not so great so we're staying in town hanging with the Chippewa.

     
    At 5/28/2006 4:33 PM, Blogger Jake said...

    beth- long time no see... where ya been hiding? travel is a nice perk of the military.

    toni- it's definitely like no other place in the States. i think the Indians got a pretty raw deal on the reservation thing. it seems to me this land is pretty much the Mediterranean and Baltic Avenues as far as real estate goes.

    anon- yes, i've seen a lot of alcoholism here. many of the diabetics are also alcoholics. there are quite the number of dialysis patients, and we've also done quite a few paracenteses with some of these patients. cirrhosis is an ugly thing. no badlands unfortunately, weather is kinda nasty. thank you and have a great weekend yourself.

     
    At 5/29/2006 10:01 PM, Blogger Jake said...

    cowgirl- Hey there cagefighter. Thank you for your service as well. Maybe I'll see you on a deployment, chi sa?

     
    At 5/30/2006 9:26 AM, Blogger Miz BoheMia said...

    Oh my! I guess I am a ditz... or maybe just homesick! Say SF to me and all I see is San Francisco though now there is another SF in my vocab...

    And to specify, because maybe I wasn't clear ( I type with shrieking kids around you see!), I am not really open to reforming child molesters or sexual predators... other criminals of other crimes, perhaps... but perverted, sick individuals like them? NO!

    Your plan to keep them locked up forever sounds good to me! Hope you had a good weekend and got some rest!

     
    At 5/30/2006 3:43 PM, Blogger airforcewife said...

    I got the opportunity to go to a few ceremonies. I was told by one person that the gentleman performing them was "progressive" because not all medicine men would let women attend.

    They were pretty cool, although the one I went to 6 days after having daughter #2 was probably a mistake. Light headed indeed! I asked hubby why he didn't stop me that time and he said, "Um, like ANYONE can EVER stop you if you want to do something!" and then he made this weird snorting sound...

    Jake, you should be very proud of all you are accomplishing - we're all very proud of you, and very grateful to have people like you.

     
    At 5/30/2006 4:18 PM, Blogger BarnGoddess_01 said...

    wow-very interesting. I love stomping around the reservation, both my tribe's in N.MI and the Osage's where Ive transplanted myself...I feel like I belong..weird huh? your story about the baby and 4 yo girl was awful, I cannot tolerate child abuse, it is the reason I left Law Enforcement,my heart became so sick from the things that I witnessed I was afraid it would never heal.

     
    At 5/30/2006 6:17 PM, Blogger The amoeba said...

    Jake - Add my appreciation for what you're doing and what you're accomplishing. I am of the era of draft deferments and the Universal Soldier ethic, so you are where I have never been. But I do what I can.

    Permit me a comment on the "prison" thing. I think that We the People are pretty schizophrenic about what to do with serious offenders.

    We claim that our goal is to return the offender to society. But we fail to recognize that to do so, to dissuade (say) a drug trader from his trade, is no less a task than (say) to dissuade you from yours. To enforce such a change is hard, expensive and raises serious ethical issues ("brainwashing"). We the People refuse to make the necessary investment. So it is no surprise that an offender in our society tends to retain his trade.

    Very well, we say, we'll place the offender in prison and keep him there. But then we refuse the resources to build the number of prisons that are needed to accomplish this. And then, after the appropriations have been voted down, we rail against our officials for maintaining prisons that are overcrowded, dangerous, and breed crime. Which gives the officials little choice but to parole anyone not immediately likely to assault the nearest gas station with a Tommy gun.

    So, maybe what we really want to do is to eliminate these offenders. But we profess repugnance to the death penalty, and even the remnants of the practice that we do allow is repugnant to most of the rest of civilization, putting "The Leader of the Free World" in a bad light. Especially after years of using the existence of a death penalty to beat up on other nations, in words and, on occasion, in arms.

    I wish We the People could think more intelligently, and consistently, about the tasks that we set for you and for your colleagues in the Armed Forces.

    Bugles Across America

     
    At 5/31/2006 10:13 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

    You are doing some amazing things. I admire you for that.

    I can't imagine how I would have handled the situation with the sexual abuse on the 4 year old. I too would have probably had to leave the room... but I would have probably had to hunt down the uncle.

    Meth... so sad... and diabetes was extremely bad while I worked with the podiatrist. We had so many diabetic patients.

    Keep up the good work, Medicine Man! :)

     
    At 6/02/2006 12:11 PM, Blogger Jake said...

    miz bohemia- you're no ditz! duh! yes i'm glad we agree on this issue. down with these bastards! San Fran is on my list of must visit destinations.

    cowgirl- your time may be dwindling but out time will come. ;)

    airforcewife- so glad to see you again. thank you for the kind words of encouragement, you're like my blogmom that i've never had.

    barngoddess- stomping aroung the reservation is so much fun. yesterday i witnessed several gus come to he bar via horseback. it was like something out of a clint eastwood movie. i felt left out i must say. gotta learn to ride dammit! so you were in law enforcement? somehow that doesn't surprise me.

    oceallaigh- your description of our national schizophrenia concerning criminal justice is right on. might i also add that you should be writing full-time friend. it is obvious that you have talent. thank you for what you do in helping to honor the fallen. honor has lost its meaning today, in my opinion. it's become difficult to describe, define, and demonstrate. we need more men like you to pass on such "codes". keep it up. thank you for the kind words as well, and i'll be sure to visit soon.

     
    At 6/02/2006 12:15 PM, Blogger Jake said...

    shayna- thank you. you are doing great things as well in supporting the deployed. don't admire me, i'm just a regular guy. i thought about hunting that guy down, but that would be vigilanteism, I'm no batman.

    dr. charles- welcome! be sure to check out these guys' sites. they're the best bloggers on the net.

     
    At 6/02/2006 3:12 PM, Blogger The amoeba said...

    Jake - Thank you. That's high praise coming from one with your talents and those of your SO (though we would probably squabble mightily over politics). In fact, I do write professionally. But for a very different audience.

    With you on "honor". Though I think it important to put "forgiveness" on an equal footing with it. The one who never stumbles is lucky, but also at grave risk, for he has not learned how to fall. Or to rise again.

     
    At 6/02/2006 4:58 PM, Blogger CJ said...

    It sure is tough to care at times, isn't it? Thanks for doing what you do and for sharing with us, 'Medicine Man'. =)

     
    At 6/02/2006 9:11 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Hey Jake,
    Good to read what you been doing. I know you will get to see some good stuff up there.We are doing alright down here on the coast, still trying to fix the house after Katrina. R just got him a room and a job for cash after getting out of big house and the other R is working hanging iron at the casino's.The middle R is still up there doing his thing working at restaurant and doing the part time service thing. Stay safe and keep in touch, I will send you my work email tommorrow. Peace out.

     
    At 6/02/2006 10:05 PM, Blogger Jake said...

    o ceallaigh- Prego! We can squabble anytime bro, I am a constant learner. "As iron sharpens iron..."
    That is a very different and specific audience indeed. That explains your icon which I've oft wondered. I like that last sentence, almost makes me want to sit at your feet like a young Jedi. You a part time theologian by chance?

    CJ- thank you for what you do as well!

     
    At 6/02/2006 10:10 PM, Blogger Jake said...

    anonymous- I like the stealth mode. Appreciate it. You are still pushing it though. I'll keep this one up here this time, but send such news via email. Keep the comments relevant to the post and it'll be all good. THIS IS NOT A FORUM TO DISCUSS SUCH PRIVATE MATTERS, that's what eamil is for. Last chance.

     
    At 6/03/2006 6:03 AM, Blogger Buffy said...

    Don't know if I've told you how much I seriously enjoy your blog.

    If I haven't....I do.

     
    At 6/03/2006 12:35 PM, Blogger Jake said...

    Buffy- lol...

    I was thinking of that song "Have I told you lately..."

    Thanks, and come visit again, and my crazy blogger friends.

     
    At 6/03/2006 10:54 PM, Blogger The amoeba said...

    Jake -

    "Constant learner": Roger that. :)

    "Part time theologian": strictly amateur, but I have given the matter some thought. And I'm no Jedi. We sit together.

     
    At 6/06/2006 11:34 AM, Blogger airforcewife said...

    BLOGMOM?? Dude, I'm only 32!

    Now I feel all old and decrepit...

     
    At 6/06/2006 11:48 AM, Blogger Jake said...

    airforcewife- Okay let's say blogbigsis... yes, much better.

    Don't feel old. If you weren't married I'd date you. ;) (if you'd allow me of course)

     

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